Sorting out how you and your
betrothed will handle money in
the future is an important
part of planning your life
together. This includes credit
cards.
A few basic steps can help
avoid issues in the future:
1. Be open
about your past and current
credit situations. Take a
common inventory of all your
credit cards and how much each
of you owes on them (if
anything).
2. Each of you should get
copies of your credit reports.
Go through them together so
you have a shared
understanding of your
individual behavior patterns
and obligations. This step
give you a chance to make sure
the reports are accurate, and
you'll know right away if
there are any serious credit
problems.
3. If one or both of you have
a problem with debt, start
addressing the problem right
away. If there is actual
delinquency involved, try to
work with your creditors or
consider calling Credit
Counseling Services. There are
regional offices all over the
country and it's either free
or at very low cost to you.
4. Think carefully about joint
versus individual cards. Many
couples each keep a card of
their own and then one joint
card for shared expenses. By
keeping individual cards, you
will each continue to have
your own credit rating. A
joint card, on the other hand
allows you to begin the
process of sharing your
purchasing decisions.
5. If you legally change your
name, call your credit card
issuer and ask to change the
name on your account. The name
on it should match with the
name on your license, passport
and other official
identification right down to
the middle initial.